Get Back Your Ex Simply By Being Less Reachable And An Increased Challenge For Her

You had been a challenge for her. You had a high significance and she was irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"

I am preparing to make a wild guess here, and yet can it be that as time went on, you started to be less and less of a challenge for her? And can it be that now, you are absolutely no challenge for her? Not to mention that she knows if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and wrapped around her little finger by simply saying the word?

I'm going to be crude here, but as you may already know, to become a challenge once again you must demonstrate to your ex girlfriend that her sexuality has no control over you any more. Think about what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then consider just what it is like when you continue doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You will be implying to the woman that you are a low-value guy with no other sexual choices.

Your lady is not going to respect you again until you reject her dominance over you. Thankfully you are doing that now by not directly corresponding with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.

You should definitely stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. You should not be "friends" with her, simply because that rewards her with the continued approval of power over you while giving her a handy justification to stay separated. (Your ex justifies that she is letting you down easy this way, assuaging virtually any guilt she may feel.)

However, always keep her locked in with your things. Probably a lot of your belongings are at her residence, and vice versa. She could even owe you money as well. She might request a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you'd like all of it back.

The right response to this should be "No, not yet. The justification is simply because her holding onto your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.

For the next 3 weeks, you must completely accept -- and embrace -- the idea that you're an independent guy now. Take what occurred with your ex-lover and learn from it. You have a wonderful chance to transform your life which will finally allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.